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Sawal : meri barri behan ki Umar
14یا 15 saal thi aur naveen jamaat mein parh rahi
theen. Unhon ne aik baar shikayat ki ke peechay darakhton se aawazian aati hain
phir woh barri par asaraar awazon ka zikar karne lagen. Aik roz waalid ko
bataya ke qareebi dukanon par baithy hue log usay gaaliyan day rahay they. Is baat
ka yaqeen is liye nahi aaya ke hamaray muhallay ke dukan dar bohat shareef
hain. Walidain ne behan ki yeh baat sun kar usay ghar mein bitha liya. Is waqt
ke baad meri behan par kayi daur aeye. Bemari ne kayi naye roop ikhtiyar kiye.
Yeh to mein aap ko batata bhool hi gayi ke is waqt se pehlay meri behan nihayat
hayadaar, tamezdaar khamosh tabiyat aur samajh daar mashhoor thi. Khandan mein
is ki misalein di jati theen. Pehlay usay vahm hua ke sab ghar walay is ke
dushman hain aur usay bura bhala kehte hain. Aik baar is ne meri ammi aur abba
ke naye silay hue kapray is terhan kaat diye ke woh dobarah pahannay ke qabil
nah rahay. Phir aahista aahista is ki harkato ki wajah se maar pait bhi karna
pari. Har qisam ke ilaaj kiye gay. Dr, hakeem, paiir faqeer koi nah chorra
lekin kuch nah bana. Aik baar chand dinon ke liye dimaghi amraaz ke hospital
mein daakhil karana para.
Phir chand baras ke baad kuch arsa aisa aaya jab woh bilkul to nahi
kaafi hadd taq normal ho gayeen lekin kisi kisi waqt un ke mun se aisi baat
nikal jati hai ke hum sab sharminda ho jatay hain. Is arsay mein walidain is ke
liye rishte ki koshishen bhi karte rahay lekin yeh kaam aasaan nah tha kyunkay
un ki tawaquaat bohat ziyada theen aur woh apne se kamtar rishte ka tasawwur
bhi nahi kar sakti theen. Aakhir-kaar aik parhay likhay aur khush shakal aur
munasib mulazmat walay larke ne sab halaat jantay hue bhi apni chahat se rishta
talab kya. Kaafi tawaquf ke baad aur behan ki razamandi se un ka nikah kar diya
gaya lekin baaz maslehton ki binaa par rukhsati nah ki gayi. Larka hamaray ghar
anay jaane laga baad mein kisi ghalat fehmi ki wajah se behan apne shohar ke
khilaaf ho gayi aur is ki soorat se nafrat karne lagen. Is larke ke behnoi aur
mere walidain ne bharpoor koshish ki ke kisi terhan se meri behan raazi ho jaye
lekin koi nateeja nahi nikla. Aakhir-kaar rishta toot gaya jis se mere maa baap
ko sakht sadma pouncha. Is baat ka mein zikar zaroor karoon gi ke behan ka
nikah bohat shaan o Shaukat se kya gaya tha taa ke woh khush ho jaye aur is
liye bhi ke woh mere maa baap ki sab se barri aulaad thi.
Mera bhai aur mein jo behan se chhootey hain is waqt taq shadi ki Umar ko
poanch chuke they lekin maa baap meri behan se pehlay hamari shadian nahi karna
chahtay they taa ke woh mehsoos nah karen. Ab jabkay un ko Talaq ho gayi hai
aur doosri jagah shadi ka imkaan nahi raha to unhon ne hum dono bhai behan ki
shadi kar di.
Hum dono se aur khasosan mujh se woh bohat hasad karti hain. Walidain
ki koshish hamesha se yeh rahi hai ke mujh se behtar un se sulooq kya jaye taa
ke woh mehsoos nah karen lekin woh mujhe mere miyan aur bachon ko bohat bura
samjhti hain halaank hum log un se bohat mohabbat karte hain lekin woh hamari
shakalain bhi dekhna pasand nahi kartin.
Ab teen chaar saloon se un ki haalat bigarti ja rahi hai. Pehlay woh
kuch azeezon, rishta daaron ko pasand karti theen aur kuch ko nahi lekin ab
kisi se bhi milna aur baat karna pasand nahi kartin. Pehlay apne libaas ka
khayaal rakhti theen aur fashion ke mutabiq malbos hoti theen. Ab bhi woh
samjhti hain ke mera libaas make up fashion ke mutabiq hai lekin haqeeqat mein
aisa nahi hai. Bemari ke douran un ki aik salahiyat ne bohat jala payi hai. Inhen
painting ka shoq hua aur Pakistan ke aik naamwar musawir se unhon ne tarbiyat
haasil ki. Arts council mein bohat arsa taq jati rahen aur is maidan mein bohat
naam paaya hai. Pakistan ke barray barray shehron mein un ki banai hui
tasweeron ki numaish bhi ki gayi. Aik baat yeh hai ke kehnay ko to bemaar hain
lekin be hadd khud gharz ho gayi hain. Apne khanay aur apne aaraam o asayish ka
poora khayaal rakhti hain aur har waqt apne haqooq ke liye lardte rehti hain. Walidain
bhi yahi chahtay hain ke is se barabari se barh kar sulooq ho lekin woh hamesha
yahi samjhti hain ke un ke sath zayad-ti ki ja rahi hai. Un ke is tarz amal aur
har waqt ke larai jhagrre ne poooray ghar ka sukoon barbaad kar diya hai.
Jawab : aap ki behan nafsiati
mariza hain. Ilaaj yeh hai. Un ke balai jism ka aik barray se bara photo banava
kar subah Sadiq ke waqt is photo par pencil se dairay banaye jayen aur dairay
is terhan se banaye jayen ke sir aur seenah dairon ke andar aa jaye. Daira ke
oopar daira aeye to koi harj nahi hai. Pencil ka sikka nah to ziyada sakht ho
aur nah ziyada naram ho kyunkay sakht ho ga to photo par kharashein par jayen
ge aur naram ho ga to pencil toot jaye gi aur is terhan amal mein khlal waqay
ho jaye ga. Amal ki muddat rozana pandrah minute, chalees roz hai.
