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It
is a crying need of the time that the ladies too should go on learning the
religious ordains and norms, and bedeck themselves with Islamic character, and
try their level best to come out as good wives and good mothers, and to
discharge their duties in the total compliance with Divine orders.
Allah
says :
" O Believers ! save yourselves
and your family members from the Fire".
Hazrat
Omer (R.A) was keeping his night alive with the mention of Allah, and just
before the down break-out, he was awaking his life-partner. exhorting her to
get up fast and perform the Dawn-prayer, and was reciting the following verse :
"Insist your family on
prayer-performance and be yourself
persistent to do the same".
It
is obligatory on the parts of ladies not to allow any letup in arranging and
decorating their houses and to maintain them from hygienic viewpoints, and
prove their fine ability and taste to pile-up the home-articles in trim
appearance. A clean and salubrious home, well-set and embellished rooms, clean
and well-equipped kitchen, decorous touches to home-duties, and the sacred and
unblemished smile of the wife, are the basic
components of the house not only to invoke the Divine benediction and
fill the house milleiu with happiness and joy, but also to please Allah
Almighty. Once happened that Hazrat Ayasha (R.A. ) found Mrs. Othman Bin Madh, out in a very simple dress
with no decorative touch. She was much surprised to see such a thing and
questioned whether Hazrat Othman was out of station? No doubt, This mindful question of Ayesha
(R.A.) was self explanatory, and you can appreciate from it that the
beautificational concern of a wife for his husband has a high magnitude of
desirability.
Tolerance,
sustenance and tactical balance lead a husband to adopt the policy of ignorance
and making a better of his half better, deposing his unabated faith in Allah.
It may not be ruled out that Allah, by the dint of that wife, may confer on her
husband such boons that are ostensibly beyond his reach. The opinions may not
differ around the fact that a religious woman, due to her faith, character and
conduct, comes as mercy for all her family, and can give birth to such a pure
soul that may turn a beacon light for others. Moreover, a good and righteous
wife is quite instrumental for the reformation of her wicked husband. This is
why a wife takes her husband near the paradise, and her good fortune invokes
all the weal and wealth for the husband.
So
you are advised not to spoil your matrimonial relations impatiently keeping in
view the defective outlook of your wife. On contrary, you should steadily and
judiciously allow the troubled water to set.
Our
Prophet (P.B.U.H) says :
"If a man has two wives and his
inclination towards one was more than towards other, he will be resurrected on
Dooms Day with half his body paralyzed".
The
family life sets a real course for the acid test of courtesy and good
temperament because a man remains constantly in touch with his family members,
so the mannerism-free life of the home exposes all the black & white of his
character. This is also a fact that a believer may not be rated perfect in his
belief unless, and until he is of a good behavior, love and affection towards
his family members. In this connection, it would be recalled as at one occasion
of Haj, the camel of Hazrat Safiya (R.A.
) Knelt so she began to weep. As soon as this was Communicated to the Prophet
(P.B.U.H.), he rushed to the spot and began to wipeout her tears with his hand
and she began to shed tears more torrentially.
KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DEEN AZEEMI
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE MERCIFUL, THE BENEVOLENT
Dedicated to those scientists, who are inching towards the cognizance of the facts, spotlighted by Allah Almighty, in the wake of their intelligent observation for the top vertex of scientific achievement, which is not other than the "Disastrous end of the Universe". And this is probably during 15th century of Lunar calendar.
