Start your preaching campaign right from your own house. In case, your life partner in the house is well equipped, like you, with religions and spiritual knowledge, you both can bring your children on a best line. The primary school of the child is the lap of the parents. If you are both well furnished with Islamic Morals, naturally your house shall turn to be the first school imparting all necessary education and training to your children.
The husband can't close his eyes from fetching his family members all their requirements and likewise the wife can't gainsay this fact that it is her duty to keep the conjugal relation as pleasant as possible, and it is their bilateral duty to consort and please each other by all their disposals and attitudes. This is the high secret behind a successful marital life and also an easy way to please Allah Almighty.
Don't indulge in the abortion of your children. All the prenatal or postnatal abortive attempts are considered the worst callousness, most drastic atrocity, the peak of cowardice, and sheer disaster in both the worlds. You are advised to blow a pregnant in throe with Ayatul Kursi, 54th and 55th verses of Araf Surah, and Al-Falaq Surah and Al-Nass Surah, and when the delivery is over, administer the call prayer in the right ear of the infant and the second prayer call in his left ear. Then request one pious man or woman to masticate a date to be applied on the fontanel of the infant, and to pray for him welfare and betterment, and on the seventh day, sacrifice the goats to mark the week-end celebration.
Don't intimidate the boys because if their minds harbour any fear or horror in the early stages of the age, it shall continue to stick to their psychology even when they get matured, and such scared boy become unable throughout their life tenure, to bring any laurel to their crown.
To keep the children regularly under cystic reproach and monotonous watch is a blatant error, because such an attitude has negative bearings on the overall development of the children. Your strict behavior is regarded by them as daily routine. You should not be oblivious of the fact that the children generally are embecile. In the place of a severe reaction to their shortcomings, you should recall your own period of childhood and the lapses, perpetrated by you during that period. Please tackle them tactfully with high sobriety and tolerance in lieu of indignation, and give them such an impression that you are sympathetic towards them, then pass your hand their head complaisantly so that the stream of submission and obedience may spring out their hearts.
KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DEEN AZEEMI
IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE MERCIFUL, THE BENEVOLENT
Dedicated to those scientists, who are inching towards the cognizance of the facts, spotlighted by Allah Almighty, in the wake of their intelligent observation for the top vertex of scientific achievement, which is not other than the "Disastrous end of the Universe". And this is probably during 15th century of Lunar calendar.
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