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Asalamo alaikum (Peace be upon You)


If one seeks to make another an ally, it is imperative to approach them with closeness and understanding. Engaging in dialogue requires a recognition of their inclinations and intellectual capacities. If assistance is desired in personal matters, offering cooperation fosters goodwill. Acts of service and genuine affection often convert even reluctant individuals into companions. Propagation of one’s faith must be undertaken with wisdom. Avoid direct criticism or commentary on the doctrine or beliefs they uphold. The initial effort should be directed towards earning their trust and regard as a benefactor and well-wisher. This necessitates assistance through financial means, resources, actions, and counsel. Once their confidence is secured, counsel them with utmost gentleness and sweetness in tone. Should they engage in debate for clarification, respond comprehensively to their inquiries within one’s ability. While addressing them, their intellectual capacity must never be disregarded. The invaluable mission of propagation must not be jeopardized by haste, ignorance, or irritation. Communication must be tailored to the intellectual scope, capacity, disposition, and social standing of each group, class, or individual. Establish mutual understanding and agreement as the foundation of the message, emphasizing shared truths that foster bonds of affection. Any critique should be constructive, reflecting sincerity and compassion. Steer clear of obstinacy, arrogance, hostility, and prejudice. If such tendencies emerge in the discourse, silence should be observed, and withdrawal from the gathering is advisable.

The Quran states:

“Call to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good admonition, and argue with them in a manner that is best.” (An-Nahl, 125)

Hazrat Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (P.U.H.B.) instructed:

“Beloved son, when you enter your home, extend greetings of peace to your family. This will bring blessings and prosperity to your household.” (Sunan Tirmidhi, 2698)

Hazrat Asma Ansariyah (may Allah be pleased with her) reports that while she was seated with her companions, the Prophet (P.U.H.B.) passed by and extended greetings of peace to them. (Sunan Abu Dawood, 5204)

Hazrat Umm Hani (may Allah be pleased with her) recounts that she visited the Prophet (P.U.H.B.) and extended greetings of peace. He inquired, “Who is this?” She replied, “It is Umm Hani.” He responded, “Welcome!” (Sunan Abu Dawood, 5205)

The Beloved of Allah, our Master (P.U.H.B.), said:

“I shall inform you of a practice that, if adopted, will increase mutual friendship and affection: frequently exchange greetings of peace among yourselves.” (Sahih Muslim, 54) He (P.U.H.B.) further instructed, “Spread greetings of peace abundantly, and Allah shall grant you safety and well-being.” (Musnad Ahmad, 2:391)

Every Muslim holds the right over their fellow Muslim to be greeted with peace whenever they meet. The Messenger of Allah (P.U.H.B.) exemplified this practice so extensively that if his companions were temporarily concealed behind a tree and reappeared, he (P.U.H.B.) would greet them again. It is narrated:
“The one closest to Allah is the one who initiates the greeting of peace.” (Abu Dawood, 5197)

He (P.U.H.B.) further stated:

“It is not permissible for a Muslim to sever ties with their fellow Muslim for more than three days, such that when they encounter one another, one turns away and the other avoids. The superior individual is the one who initiates the greeting of peace.” (Sahih Bukhari, 6077; Sahih Muslim, 2560)

The greeting As-Salaam Alaikum must always be articulated audibly, ensuring that the recipient can hear it. However, if circumstances necessitate supplementing the verbal greeting with a gesture, such as a movement of the hand or head, it is permissible. For instance, if the individual being greeted is at a distance where your voice may not reach, or if they are unable to hear due to hearing impairment, it is appropriate to combine the verbal greeting with a corresponding gesture. (Abu Dawood, 5204)


 

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KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DEEN AZEEMI


IN THE NAME OF ALLAH, THE MERCIFUL, THE BENEVOLENT

Dedicated to those scientists, who are inching towards the cognizance of the facts, spotlighted by Allah Almighty, in the wake of their intelligent observation for the top vertex of scientific achievement, which is not other than the "Disastrous end of the Universe". And this is probably during 15th century of Lunar calendar.