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Imam Rabia Al Raye Bohat barray aalam guzray hain. Imam Maalik aur
Husn Basri un ke shagird hain. Jab Imam Rabia Al Raye Shikam madar mein thay un
ke waalid badshahi hukum se lrhayyon mein chalay gaye aur 27 saal safar mein
rahay.
Umm Rabia Al Raye Aik ibadat guzaar, mustaghni khatoon theen.
Shohar ki adam mojoodgi mein be misaal sabr o eesaar ka muzahira kar ke betay
ki parwarish o tarbiyat ki. Som o salaat aur tohjd ki paband theen. Nabi
kareem (s.a.w)se ishhq tha. Maa ki saari
kaifiyat betay mein muntaqil huien. apne ghar ke aik hissay ko khawateen ke dars
o tadrees ke liye waqf kar diya tha. Har haftay khawateen kaseer tadaad mein
aati theen aur aap ka dars sunthee theen. Aap dars mein khawateen ko gharelo
mamlaat aur bachon ki tarbiyat ke hawalay se waaz karti theen.
Aik martaba farmaya :
Bachon ko darane se parhaiz karna chahiye kyunkay ibtidayi umar ka
yeh dar saari zindagi par muheet hojata hai aur aisay bachay zindagi mein koi
bara karnaama injaam dainay ke laiq nahi rehtay. Aulaad ko baat baat par
dantnay, jahkarny aur bura balah kehnay se bachay khauf zada ho jatay hain. Is
ke bar aks shafqat o mohabbat aur narmi ke bartao se aulaad ke andar itaat o
farmabardari ke jazbaat nashonuma paate hain.
Maa baap ka wujood aulaad ke liye aasman ki terhan hai. apne bachon
ko goad mein lijiye, pyar kijiyej, shafqat se un ke sar par haath behra. Maa ki
mamta aur baap ki shafqat se bachon ke andar khud itmadi peda hoti hai aur un
ki fitri nashonuma par khushgawar asraat muratab hotay hain. Saleh aulaad hi
aap ke baad aap ki tehzibi riwayaat, deeni talemaat aur pegham toheed ko zindah
rakhnay ka zareya hai. Momin naik aulaad ki aarzoyeen is liye karta hai ke woh
Rasool (s.a.w) ke pegham par amal kere
aur saari duniya mein yeh pegham aam kere.
Walidain ko chahiye ke doosron ke samnay apne bachon ke aib bayan
nah karen. Aur nah kisi ke samnay un ko sharminda karen. Bachon ke samnay un ki
islaah se mayoosi ka izhaar bachon mein ehsas kamtaree peda kar deta hai ya un
mein zid aur gussa bhar jata hai. Bachay kahaniyan sun kar bohat khush hotay
hain aur inhen jo kuch sunaya jata hai woh un ke hafzay mein mehfooz ho jata
hai. Pyar aur ansiyat ke sath inhen nabiyo ke qissay, sauliheen ki kahaniyan,
sahaba karaam ki zindagi ke waqeat aur mujahideen islam ke karname sunaein.
Inhen bitayen ke Rasool (s.a.w) bachon
se walehana mohabbat karte thay. Bachon ko dekh kar Huzoor
anoor (s.a.w)ka chehra gulnar ho jata tha.
Be ja laad pyar se bachay ziddi aur khud sir ho jatay hain. Har ja
o be ja zid poori karne ke bajaye tahammul aur burdbaari ke sath koshish karni
chahiye ke bachay zid nah karen.
Allah Taala ne karakht aawaz
ko napasand kya hai. Bachon ke sath jeekna jilana nahi kyunkay bachay yeh
samajhney lagtay hain ke gala phaar kar zor se bolna koi qabil tareef baat hai.
Narmi, khush gftari aur dheemay lehjey mein maa baap jab baat karte hain to
bachon ka lehja khud bakhud naram aur sheree ho jata hai.
Kabhi kabhi apne bachon ke haath se ghareebon aur miskin ko khana,
paisa aur kapra waghera daluya diya taa ke un ke andar ghareebon ke sath
sulooq, sakhavat o khairaat ka jazba peda ho. Sath baith kar khana khahiye Un
ke mun mein niwala den. Un se bhi kahiye ke woh apne behan bhaiyon ko apne
haath se khana khilain.
Jaedad mein larki ka hissa poori dayanat daari aur ihtimaam ke sath
dena Allah ne farz kya hai is mein apni taraf se kami beshi karne ka kisi ko
ikhtiyar nahi. Larki ka hissa dainay mein heela joi se kaam lena Allah ke
qanoon mein khayanat hai.
Hazrat Uumm Rabia Al Raye Ne auliya karaam ki arwah muqaddisa se
bhi taleem haasil ki. Begmebaran karaam ki ziyarat se bhi musharraf hoti rehti
theen.Log daur daur se masail ke hal, dua aur wazifay waghera ke liye atay
thay.
