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BIBI MARYAM FATIMA (R.A)

Bibi maryam fatima ko bargaah ikdaas (s.a.w) khusoosi faiz naseeb hua. Allah ki be shumaar makhlooq is faiz se sairaab hui, pareshan haal logon ne Aap (s.a.w) se sukh chain paaya, be aulaad khawateen ko aulaad ki nemat ataa hui, aap istaghraaq ki kefiyat mein jo baat keh deti theen woh harf bah harf poori ho jati thi. Dam, dua, duroood ke liye daur daur se log atay thay. Khidmat khalq ke alawa  aap gosha nasheen ho kar Allah se raaz o niaz mein masroof rhtin, kayi dafaa haalat baydaari mein Huzoor  (s.a.w) ki ziyarat se musharraf huien. Shab bedaar, zindah dil khatoon theen.

Aik dil giriftaa khatoon un ke paas ayen jo be aulaad theen. Koi androoni bemari thi is ki wajah se hamal nahi tharta tha. Har hakeem, tabeb ka ilaaj kar aj kaye theen. Khatoon par umeed ho kar Bibi maryam ke paas ayen. Bibi sahibaa ne muraqba kya aur khatoon ki aulaad ki basharat di. Bibi maryam ki basharat ke mutabiq Allah Taala  ne jurwan bachiyan ataa farmaen.

Khidmat khalq ka aik bara faida yeh hai ke log apni zaroriat ke liye barri tadaad mein jama ho jatay hain. Aulia Allah apne paas anay walay logon ko Allah aur is ke Rasool  (s.a.w) ke arshadat bhi sunaate hain. Is terhan dua ke sath sath un ki taleem o tarbiyat ka bhi az khud ihtimaam ho jata hai.

Walii Allah khatoon maryam ne farmaya :

'' Maa baap agar dono islami ikhlaq se aarasta hunge. Ghar taleem o tarbiyat ka pehla school ban jaye ga, mard ke oopar farz hai ke biwi aur bachon ki tamam zaroriat poori kere. Aurat ke oopar farz hai ke azdawaji zindagi ko khushgawar banaye rakhay. Dono ko chahiye ke apne qoul o amal aur andaaz o atwaar se aik dosray ko khush rakhnay ki koshish karen. Kamyaab azdawaji zindagi ka yahi raaz hai aur khuda  ko khush rakhnay ka zareya bhi.

Allah Taala  aap ko jo aulaad deta hai is ko kabhi zaya nah karen. Peda honay se pehlay ya peda honay ke baad aulaad ko zaya karna bad tareen sangdili, bhayanak zulm, intehai buzdali aur dono jahanon ki tabahi hai. Wiladat ke waqt maa ban'nay wali aurat ke paas aayat al kursi aur surah airaaf ki ayaat ۵۴, ۵۵ parheen, surah falaq aur surah al naas parh kar dam karen, wiladat ke baad bachay ke dayen kaan mein azaan aur baen kaan mein iqamat kahin. Azaan aur iqamat ke baad kisi naik mard ya naik aurat se khajoor chbwa kar bachay ke taalu mein lgwayin aur bachay ke liye kher o barket ki dua karwaen. Satwen din aqiqa karen.

Aulaad ko har waqt sakht sust aur bura nah kahin bacha daant dapat ko rozana ka mamool samajhney lagta hai. Bachay nadaan hotay hain un ki kotahiyon par bezaar honay ke bajaye yeh sochen ke aap bhi un hi ki terhan bachay thay aur aap se bhi be shumaar kotahyan sarzad hui theen. Nafrat ka izhaar karne ke bajaye hikmat, tahammul aur burdbaari se un ko sumjhaayein. Un ko yeh ta-assur den ke aap un ke dost hain. Un ke suron par shafqat se haath phairen. Bachay wohi kuch karte hain jo maa baap karte hain. Bachay wohi zabaan boltay hain jo maa baap boltay hain. Bachon ke sath bachay ban karkhaleey. Rasool  (s.a.w) ki pusht mubarak par Hazrat imam husn aur Hazrat imam husn sawaar ho jatay thay aur Huzoor  (s.a.w) ki zulfein pakar kar khenchte thay aur Huzoor  (s.a.w) se farmaaish karte thay :

'' Nana! Oont ki aawaz nikalen.' '

Huzoor  (s.a.w) khushi khushi bachon ki farmaaish poori karte thay.

Bachon ki taleem ka acha intizam karna zaroori hai taa ke woh muashray mein behtareen maqam haasil karen aur deen ki khidmat karen, buzurgon ka ehtram karen aur apne se chhootey bachon se mohabbat karen.' '

Hikmat O Danayee

* Allah ki tarz fikar yeh hai ke woh apni makhlooq ki khidmat karta hai aur is khidmat ka koi sila nahi chahta.

* momin ki poori zindagi muhim joi aur jad-o-jehad hai.

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