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Agar hum chahtay hain ke dosra shakhs
hamara hum nawa ban jaye to hamein is shakhs se qareeb hona ho ga. Is shakhs ke
rujhanaat ka andaza kar ke aur is ki zehni salahiyaton ko mad e nazar rakh kar
is se baat karni ho gi. Is ke zaati mamlaat mein agar woh chahta hai to taawun
kar ke is ki hamdardian haasil karna hon gi. Khidmat aur qalbi lagao aik aisa
amal hai ke aadmi nah chahtay hue bhi dost ban jata hai. apne mazhab ki
tableegh hikmat ke sath kijiyej. Jis maslak aur jis aqeday par woh qaim hai.
Barah e raast is par tanqeed o tabsarah nah kijiyej. Pehlay koshish ki jaye ke
woh aap ko apna hamdard aur mohsin samjhay. Is ke liye zaroori hai ke daame,
drme, qdme, skhne is ki khidmat ki jaye. Jab aap ke oopar is ka aetmaad bahaal
ho jaye, nihayat naram aur sheree lehjey mein usay naseehat kijiyej. Koi baat
samajhney ke liye woh behas mobahisa kere to apne maqdoor bhar is ke sawalaat
ka shafi jawab dijiye. Baat karte waqt mukhatib ki salahiyat ko hargiz nazar
andaaz nah kijiyej. Tableegh ki giran baha doulat ko jald baazi, nadani aur
jhnjhlaht se zaya nah kijiyej. Har tabqay, har giroh aur har fard se is ki
fikri rasai, istedad, salahiyat, zehni kefiyat aur samaji hesiyat ke mutabiq
baat kijiyej aur un haqeeqaton ko baahum afham o tafheem ke sath dawat ki
bunyaad banaiye jin mein ittafaq ho aur jo aapas mein rishta mohabbat ki raah
hamwar karen. Agar aap tanqeed karen to yeh amal tameeri ho, ikhlaas o mohabbat
ka aaina daar ho. Zid, hatt dharmi, nafrat aur taasub ke jazbaat se hamesha
apna daman bachaaye rkhiye aur jahan yeh kaifiyatein peda hoti nazar ayen, apni
zabaan band kar lijiye aur is mehfil se uth aayiyae.
Quran kareem farmata hai :
‘‘ Apne rab ke rastay
ki taraf dawat dijiye hikmat ke sath, umdah naseehat ke sath aur mobahisa
kijiyej to aisay tareeqay par jo intehai bhala ho.’‘ ( Al nahl )
Hazrat ans ka bayan hai ke mujhe nabi s.a.w
ne takeed farmai ke pyare betay, jab tum apne ghar mein daakhil hua karo to
pehlay ghar walon ko salam kya karo. Yeh tumahray ghar walon ke liye kher o
barket ki baat hai.
Hazrat asma ansari farmaati hain ke
mein apni saheliyo mein baithi hui thi ke nabi s.a.w ka hamaray paas se guzar hua
to Aap s.a.w ne hum logon ko salam kya.
Hazrat umm hani farmaati hain ke mein
nabi Huzoor s.a.w ki khidmat mein haazir hui. Mein ne Aap s.a.w ko salam kya
aur Aap s.a.w ne daryaft farmaya’‘ kon hai ?’‘ mein ne arz kya.’‘
mein umm hani hon.’‘ farmaya.’‘ khush aamdeed !’‘
Hamaray aaqa, Allah ke Mehboob s.a.w ka
irshad hai :
‘‘ Mein tumhe aisi
tadbeer batata hon jis ko ikhtiyar karne se tumahray mabain dosti aur mohabbat
barh jaye gi. Aapas mein kasrat se aik dosray ko salam kya karo.’‘ Aap
s.a.w ne yeh bhi farmaya hai ke salam ko khoob phelao, Khuda tum ko salamat
rakhay ga.
Har musalman ke oopar dosray musalman
ka yeh haq hai ke woh jab bhi apne bhai se miley usay salam kere. Rasool Allah s.a.w is kasrat se salam kya karte thay ke
agar kisi waqt Aap s.a.w ke saathi darakht ki oot mein ho jatay aur phir samnay
atay to Rasool Allah s.a.w phir salam karte. Irshad hai :
‘‘ Woh
aadmi Khuda se ziyada qareeb hai jo salam karne mein pehal karta.’‘ Aap s.a.w
ne farmaya :
‘‘ Kisi musalman ke
liye yeh baat jaaiz nahi ke woh apne musalman bhai se teen din se ziyada tak
qata talluq kiye rahay ke jab miley to aik idher katra jaye aur dosra udhar. Un
mein afzal woh hai jo salam mein pehal kere.’‘
Salam alaikum hamesha zabaan se k_hiye aur zara onche
aawaz mein salam kijiyej taa ke woh shakhs sun sakay jis ko aap salam kar rahay
hain. Albata agar kahin zabaan se salam alaikum kehnay ke sath sath haath ya
sir se ishara karne ki zaroorat ho to koi muzaika nahi. Maslan aap jis ko salam
kar rahay hain woh daur hai aur aap ke zehen mein yeh baat hai ke aap ki aawaz
wahan tak nahi pahonch sakay gi ya koi berha hai aur aap ki aawaz nahi sun
sakta, aisi soorat e haal mein salam ke sath sath haath ya sir se ishara bhi
kijiyej.
KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DIN AZEEMI
UN SCINCEDANO KE NAAM
JO 15VEEN SADDI HIJIRI MEIN
MOJOODA SCINCE KA
AKHRI UROOJ DUNIYA
KI TABAHI DHEKH KAR
EK WAHID ZAAT
KHALIQ KAINAAT
ALLAH KI TAJALI KA
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