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Aurton ko chahiye ke woh deen ke
ehkaam aur tahazeeb sekhen. Islami ikhlaq se
aarasta hon. Har mumkin koshish karen ke woh aik achi biwi aur achi maa saabit
hon. Khuda ki farmaa bardaar bandi ban kar apne faraiz bah husn o khoobi injaam
den.
Allah Taala ka irshad hai :
‘‘Imaan walo! apne
aap ko, apne ghar walon ko jahannum ki aag se bachao.’‘
Hazrat umar raat ke waqt Khuda ke Huzoor
haazir hotay, phir jab sehar ka waqt aata to apni rafiqa hayaat ko jagatay aur
kehte utho utho, namaz qaim karo aur yeh aayat tilawat farmatay :
‘‘.. .. . Aur apne
ghar walon ko namaz ki takeed kijiyej aur khud bhi is ke oopar paband rhyie.’‘
Khawateen ke liye zaroori hai ke
safai, saleeqa aur araish o zebaish ka poora poora ihtimaam karen aur ghar ko
saaf suthra rakhen, ghar mein cheezon ko saliqay se sajayein aur saliqay se
istemaal karen. Saaf suthra ghar, qareene se sajay hue saaf suthray kamray, pak
saaf bawarchi khanah, gharelo kamon mein saleeqa aur sghrh pan, banaao singhar
ki hui biwi ki pakeeza muskurahat se nah sirf gharelo zindagi pyar o mohabbat
aur kher o barket se malaa maal hoti hai balkay yeh Khuda ko khush karne ka bhi
aik zareya hai.
Aik baar Begum Ibn Mazoon se Hazrat aisha
ki mulaqaat hui to aap ne dekha ke begum usmaan nihayat saaday kapron mein
hain. Aur koi banaao singhar bhi nahi kya hai, to Hazrat aisha ko bara taajjub hua
aur un se poocha.’‘ bi bi! Kya usmaan kahin safar par gaye hue hain ?’‘
Hazrat aisha ke is taajjub se andaza
hota hai ke suhagno ka apne shohar ke liye banaao singhar karna kaisa
pasandeeda amal hai.
Burdbaari, tahammul aur hikmat ki
rawish yeh hai ke aadmi dar guzar se kaam le aur Khuda par bharosa rakhtay hue
apni biwi ke sath khush dili se nibaah kere. Ho sakta hai ke Allah rab ulizzat
is aurat ke zariye mard ko aisi bhulaiyon se nawaz day jin tak mard ki pahonch
nah ho. Deendar aurat apne imaan, seerat aur ikhlaq ke baais pooray khandan ke
liye rehmat ban jati hai. Is ki zaat se koi aisi saeed rooh wujood mein aa
sakti hai jo aik aalam ke liye mashal raah ho. Achi aur naik khoo biwi mard ki
islaah haal ke liye aik muaser zareya hai. Biwi khawand ko jannat se qareeb kar
deti hai. Is ki qismat se duniya mein Khuda mard ko rizaq aur khush haali se
nwazta hai.
Aurat ke kisi zahiri aib ko dekh kar
be sabri ke sath azdawaji talluq ko barbaad nah kijiyej. Balkay hakeemana tarz
amal se aahista aahista ghar ki makdar fiza ko ziyada se ziyada khush gawaar banaiye.
Rasool Allah s.a.w ka irshad hai :
Agar kisi shakhs ki do biwiyan hain
aur is ne un ke sath insaaf aur barabari ka sulooq nah kya to qayamat ke roz
woh is haal mein aaye ga ke is ka aadha dhar gir gaya ho.
Khush khalqi aur naram mizaji ko
parkhnay ka asal maidan gharelo zindagi hai. Ghar walon se har waqt vaastaa rehta
hai aur ghar ki be takalouf zindagi mein mizaaj aur ikhlaq ka har rukh samnay
aa jata hai aur yeh haqeeqat hai ke wohi momin apne imaan mein kaamil hai jo
ghar walon ke sath khush ikhlaqi, khanda peshani aur meharbani ka bartao
rakhay. Ghar walon ki dil joi kere aur pyar o mohabbat se paish aaye.
Aik baar hajj ke mauqa par Hazrat safia
ka oont baith gaya aur woh sab se peechay reh gayeen. Rasool Allah s.a.w ne dekha ke woh zaar o qitaar ro rahi
hain. Aap s.a.w ruk gaye aur chadar ka palu le kar dast mubarak se un ke ansoo
khushk kiye. Rasool Allah s.a.w umm
al-momineen Hazrat safia ke ansoo ponchhte jatay thay aur woh be ikhtiyar ho
kar ro rahi theen.
KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DIN AZEEMI
UN SCINCEDANO KE NAAM
JO 15VEEN SADDI HIJIRI MEIN
MOJOODA SCINCE KA
AKHRI UROOJ DUNIYA
KI TABAHI DHEKH KAR
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