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Undlas ki rehne wali theen. Un ke paas bakri thi jo shehad ki terhan
meetha doodh deti thi. Sheikh Abu Al Rabiya farmatay hain ke :
Mein ne aik naya pyalaa khareeda aur Bibi Fatmah
ke paas pouncha. Salam kya aur kaha ke aap bakri ki bakri dekhna chahta
hon. Woh bakri le ayen aur pyaale mein doodh nikala. Jab piya to mehsoos hua ke
doodh mein shehad ghulla hua hai. Mein ne is karamat ki baabat poocha to
Bibi Fatmah ne bataya.
Hamaray paas aik bakri thi. Eid qurbaan ke din shohar ne kaha ke is
ko qurbaan kar den. Mein ne kaha ke hum is ko qurbaan nahi karen ge kyunkay hum
sahib nisaab nahi hain. Is hi raat maheman aa gaya. Mein ne apne shohar se kaha
ke maheman ki izzat o madarat ka Allah ne hukum diya hai. Bakri zibah kardo
lekin aisi jagah zibah karna ke bachay nah dekhen. Mere shohar bakri zibah
karne ke liye bahar le gaye. Bakri rassi chore kar deewar phalang kar ghar mein
aa gayi. Mujhe khayaal aaya ke khawand ke haath se chhut kar aa gayi hai. Jab
bahar ja kar dekha to shohar bakri ki khaal utaar rahay thay. Mujhe taajjub hua
aur shohar ko bataya ke bakri deewar phalang kar aa gayi hai. Unhon ne kaha ke
Allah ne is se behtar bakri ataa farma di hai.
Khawateen aap ki be had mutarrif theen. Ilm o hikmat mein be misaal
theen. Bindo wa nisah karte hue khawateen se farmaati theen :
Achay log mehmanon ke khanay peenay par musarrat mehsoos karte
hain. Mehmanon ko zahmat nahi. Rehmat aur kher o barket ka zareya samajte hain.
Ghar mein maheman anay se izzat o touqeer mein izafah hota hai.
Maheman ke anay par salam dua ke baad sab se pehlay is ki kheriyat maloom
karen. Mehmanon ke sath achay se acha khana paish karen. Dastarkhawan par khord
o nosh ka samaan aur bartan waghera mehmanon ki tadaad se ziyada rakhen. Ho
sakta hai ke khanay ke douran koi aur maheman aa jaye aur phir un ke liye bhaag
daud karna parre. Agar bartan aur samaan pehlay se mojood ho ga to anay wala
bhi izzat aur musarrat mehsoos kere ga. Maheman ke liye khud takleef utha kar
eesaar karna ikhlaq husna ki tareef mein aata hai.
Nabi Makram (s.a.w) khud banfs Nafees Mehmanon ki khatir daari
farmatay thay. Ab Aap (s.a.w) maheman ko apne dastarkhawan par khana khelati to
baar baar farmatay :
'' Aur kahaiye aur khaiye.' '
Jab maheman khoob aasooda ho jata aur inkaar karta is waqt Aap
(s.a.w) israar nahi farmatay thay.
* maheman ki izzat o madarat ka Allah ne hukum diya hai.
* Hazrat Ibrahim khalil Allah itnay ziyada maheman nawaz thay ke
agar dastarkhawan par maheman nahi hota tha to ghar se bahar maheman ko talaash
karne nikal jatay thay aur maheman ke sath khana khatay thay.
* mehmanon ki khatir tawaza tamam anbiya-e karaam, aulia Allah aur
achay logon ka shewa raha hai.
* maheman ke anay se ghar mein barket hoti hai. Aur Allah
Taala rizaq mein farawani ataa farma tey
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