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Aapa jee meri maa hain aur naam ummat al - rahman hai. Meri maa
nihayat abida o zahida khatoon theen, saat waqt ki namazi thi nazar o niaz
bohat karti theen. Ghar mein har mah kisi nah kisi buzurag ya imam ki fatiha
hoti thi, deorhi mein maheman khanah banaya hua tha. Blatkhsis koi bhi shakhs
takhat par aa kar baith jata tha maheman ko taaza rootti pakka kar khilaati
theen. Mehmanon ka ration aik almaari mein mqfl rehta tha. Almaari is waqt
khulti thi jab maheman aeye ya is mein samaan rakha jaye. Har kaam mein Allah
ka shukar ada karti theen, barri beti amina khatoon ka hospital mein intqaal ho
gaya. Khaala zaad behan ne beti ke intqaal ki khabar di to foran kaha.' ' ya
Allah tera shukar hai.' ' kuch tawaquf ke baad ronay lagen.
Barri bhabhi ne apna khawab is terhan sunaya. Mein ne khawab mein
dekha ke tohjdki namaz ke liye wudu karne ja rahi hon ke yakayak roshni phaily
aur phir noor ka jamhkah hua aur mein ne dekha ke mere aqaa (s.a.w), meri jaan
un par fida ho, mere samnay kharray hain.
Mein ne kaha. Salam alaikum! Ya Rasool (s.a.w). Rasool (s.a.w)
ne farmaya. Waalikum salam. Phir daryaft farmaya :' ' ummat al-rehman
kahan hain ?' ' mein ne arz kya : ya Rasool
(s.a.w) ! Woh samnay walay kamray mein so rahi hain. Mein abhi jagati
hon. Huzoor phir noor (s.a.w) ne farmaya :' ' nahi. Sonay do jab uth jaye to
keh dena martazi (s.a.w) aeye they salam keh gaye hain.' '
Molf kitaab' ' aulia Allah khawateen' ' khwaja shams aldeen azimi
ne khawab mein dekha ke matti ka bana hua aik kacha ghar hai. Chaar deewari par
chikni matti patti hui hai. Wahan Sayedna (s.a.w) aik khatoon se khush ho kar
batain kar rahay hain. Sath hi meri walida aapa jee khari hain aur mein is waqt
saat aath saal ka bacha un ke qareeb kharray ho kar nihayat herat ke sath
Huzoor (s.a.w) ko dekh raha hon aur soch
raha hon ke yeh khatoon kitni khush naseeb aur muqaddas hain ke Huzoor (s.a.w) un se mohabbat se baat kar rahay hain
mera yeh khayaal Huzoor (s.a.w) taq
poanch gaya.
Huzoor (s.a.w) ne muskuratay
hue mujhe dekha aur farmaya :
'' Miyan yeh khatoon Bibi Khadija
hain.' '
Yeh sun kar Bibi Khadija ne
farmaya :
'' Ya Rasool (s.a.w) ! Yeh
aurat' ' ( aapa jee ki taraf ishara kar ke kaha ) is ki maa hai. Rasool (s.a.w)
ne farmaya :
'' Haan mein jaanta hon yeh ummat al-rehman hai aur bohat sabra
hai.' '
Aapa jee molana khalil ahmed ahmed sahib sharnpori se baet huien.
Baet honay ke baad murshid kareem ki khidmat mein arz kya :
'' Ya Hazrat aap ne sab ko sabaq diya hai, parhnay ko tasbehaat aur
naflay talqeen ki hain, mujhe kuch nahi bataya.' '
Hazrat sharnpori ne farmaya :
'' Tera sabaq yeh hai ke to bachon ki sahih tarbiyat kar day aur
apne bachon ko paal poos kar bara kar day to mera kaam kar day mein tera haq
tujhy pouncha doonga.' '
Hum behan bhaiyon mein se koi yeh kehta tha ke mein falan cheez
nahi khata. Aapa jee keh deti theen :
'' Jao khelo tumhe bhook nahi hai.' '
Bachay zid karte they magar aapa jee wohi khana khilaati theen jo
ghar mein mojood hota tha. Albata aglay roz ya shaam ko bachay ki farmaaish
poori kar deti theen.
Raat ko tohjdke baad apne paiir ki shaan mein qaseede padti theen
aur be qarar ho kar roti theen. Mein ne aik roz poocha :
'' Aapa jee aap ke paiir sahib ne aap ko kuch diya bhi hai ?' '
Bolein :' ' bhai mein ne apni duty poori kar di. Bachon ki dekh
bhaal kar ke inhen neki ke rastay par chalaya. Allah ka shukar hai mere murshid
ne mujhe nawaz diya.' '
Mein ne poocha :' ' kya nawaz sh hui ?' '
Frmane lagen :' ' bas nawaz diya mein mutmaen ho aur khush hon.' '
Mere abba jee deen daar aadhi they, shariat aur tareqat mein un ki
hesiyat mumtaz thi, aqaal halal ka bator khaas ihtimaam karte they ,
Waqalat ke payshay se munsalik they. Aik roz khayaal aaya ke wakeel
ki kamyabi is mein hai ke sach ko jhoot aur jhoot ko sach saabit kar ke muqadma
jeet le, aapa jee se is baat ka izhaar kya to unhon ne kaha :
'' Is terhan to hamaray bachon ki tarbiyat sahih nahi ho gi. Dono
miyan biwi ne mutfiq ho kar faisla kya ke waqalat ka pesha tark kar diya jaye.
Halaat jab namsaad ho gaye to lakri ki aik taall par aik rupiya roz ujrat par
lakdiyaan pharnay ki mazdoori shuru kar di. Allah ne yeh karam kya ke darakht
ki jaanch par gayi ke is darakht mein itni sokhta lakri hai, itnay takhtay
nikleen ge aur jaroon mein itna koyla ban jaye ga. Is fun mein is qader
mahaarat ho gayi ke jungle kharidne walay abba jee ki khidmaat haasil karte
they. Waaray ke nyare ho gaye aur Allah ki di hui tofeq ke sath paanch hajj
kiye. Bataya jata hai ke aik hajj paidal kya tha jis mein paiir shadeed zakhmi
ho gaye they.
Aapa jee ne apne bachon ke sath do bachon ko bhi doodh pilaya aur
un ki parwarish ki aik bachay ki walida ka intqaal ho gaya tha. Alhumdulliah ab
woh bacha aslamk astidiz mein ph. D bhi
aur usay seerat tayyiba perk taab likhnay par sadaarti award mila hai.
Dosray bachay ki maa bemaar thi is bachay ne mere ( mulaf kitaab ke ) sath
doodh piya hai. Subah, dopehar, shaam, raat bachay ki maa apne shohar ke sath
bachay ko aapa jee ke paas bhaij deti thi aur aapa jee usay doodh pila kar
wapas maa ke paas bhaij deti theen.
Mere raathee bhai abid Allah ansari ne purnam chasham ke sath
chicago america mein mujhe apne doston ki majlis mein yeh waqea sunaya tha.
Mohtaram bhai shams aldeen azimi sahib ki walida majida ne meri parwarish ki
hai jab mein ne hosh sanbhala to kisi khatoon ne bataya ke meri maa ka intqaal
ho gaya hai aur mujhe yateem samajh kar khaala ummat al-rehman ne doodh pilaya
hai. Mein rota hua aapa jee ke paas gaya un se poocha meri maa kon hai? Aapa
jee bolein.' ' mein teri maa hon.' ' mujhe yaqeen nahi aaya. Mein ne rotay hue
kaha.' ' nahi aap meri maa nahi hain.
Meri maa to mar gayi hai.' '
Aapa ne mujhe seenay se laga liya aur apna haath samnay kar ke
kaha.' ' dekh mera haath safaid hai to bhi gora hai.' ' aur akbar ( mera chhota
bhai jis ke sath abid ansari ne doodh beyahai ) ki taraf ishara kar ke kaha.' '
dekh is ka rang sanwla hai is ki maa mar gayi hai mein ne is ko goad le kar
doodh pilaya hai.' '
Mulaf kitaab aulia Allah khawateen ke sath yeh sorat e haal hai ke
mujhe jab bhi koi pareshani la-haq hoti hai aapa jee khawab mein ya baydaari
mein rohani tor par meri madad karti hain. Meri himmat barhati hain aur hosla
deti hain.
Hazrat mohammad Rasool
(s.a.w) ke darbaar aqes o ather
mein Hazrat Qalandar Baba Aulia ne aapa jee ka taaruf behan ke rishte se karaya
aur syedna Rasool (s.a.w) ne is rishte ko barri khusi se qubool farma
liya.
* har larki maa hai chahay woh beti ho, behan ho, biwi ho. Allah ne
usay zeli takhleeq ke liye banaya hai, agar biwi Allah ki ataa kardah maa ki
sifaat se shohar ki dekh bhaal kere to shohar kabhi be wafai nahi kere ga.
* kiraya ka ghar tokrey mein ghar, dosray ka ghar thook ka dar,
apna ghar hug hug ke bhar.
* shohar ke samnay kabhi onche aawaz mein nahi bolna chahiye,
shohar khud dheemi aawaz mein bolna shuru kar day ga sirf sabr o istiqlal ki
zaroorat hai.
* shohar aadam ka qaim maqam hai aur biwi hawa ki qaim maqam hai.
* aurat aur mard ka amal khud is ka nigehbaan ya muhasib hai.
* Allah ka shukar ada karne aur sabr karne se saaray kaam aasaan ho
jatay hain.
* aulaad ki tarbiyat ka dar-o-madar maa ke kirdaar se hai.
* aurat ko qudrat ne yeh wasf bakhsha hai ke jab woh dil se kisi ka
intikhab kar layte hai to har terhan ka eesaar karti hai aur har rukawat ko
phalang jati hai.
* achi aurat mard ki iffat par aanch nahi anay deti.
* hamesha Allah ko apna muhafiz samjhoo.
* aulaad aur maal fitnah hain lekin agar maal aur aulaad ko Allah
ki amanat samgha jaye to yeh dono jannat mein jany ka parwana hain.
* duroood shareef kasrat se parho.
* namaz qaim karne mein susti nah karo.
* safai aur pakizgee husn mein izafah karti hai.
* jis ghar mein mehmanon ki khush ho kar tawaza ki jati hai is ghar
mein barkaten nazil hoti hain.
* saas baho ko dil se beti bana le aur baho dil se saas ko maa
samajh le to ghar mein fasaad nahi ho ga.
* sab se barri pareshani cholha chuki hai, saas ko chahiye ke betay
ki shadi ke baad cholha chuki se azad ho jaye.
* jis terhan biwi ke oopar saas ki khidmat farz hai is terhan
damaad par bhi apni saas ki khidmat farz hai, hamaray muashray mein yeh bohat
barri na insafi hai ke baho ke oopar saari zimma dariyan daal di jati hain ke
sasural ki khidmat mein lagi rahay lekin damaad ke oopar koi zimma daari nahi
hoti ke woh bhi apni saas ki khidmat kere, paiir dabay, sir mein tail daaley,
pesey tikay se un ki khidmat kere.
* mureed jab apni duty poori kar deta hai to murshid usay nawaz
deta hai.
