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Question:
Before becoming a mother, my husband was very affectionate and attentive. He
would even handle household chores, including preparing and serving meals.
However, since my motherhood, his demeanor has shifted considerably. He now
seems distant, often upset by trivial matters. Despite this, my love for him
remains unchanged, and I am willing to make any sacrifice for his well-being. I
wish for him to return to his previous state of affection and care.
Answer:
Once your daily tasks are complete, before retiring for the night, engage in
the recitation of Durud Sharif eleven times at both the beginning and end of
your supplication. Following this, recite the phrase "Bismillah al-Wasi'u
Jalaluh- بِسْمِ اللّٰہِ اَلْوَاسِعُ جَلَّ جَلَالُہٗ "
one hundred times. Perform this act without engaging in conversation, and
proceed to lie down while focusing on the mental image of your husband. It is
essential to release any anticipations regarding his behavior, particularly the
expectation that he will cater to your needs as he once did. According to
philosophical reflections, a man’s most notable weakness lies in his
appreciation for delightful, well-prepared meals. By preparing exquisite dishes
and occasionally offering them to him with your own hands, you will foster an
atmosphere conducive to affection and mutual understanding. This approach may
rekindle the loving dynamic between you.
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