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Fifty
percent of all that is mentally1 accepted by the children is taken from the
parents and the atmosphere at home and the rest is taken from the society
existing around them. If the atmosphere) at home is not peaceful and parents
are quarrelsome the children will also adopt the habits of their parents.
Gradually this habit establishes in children firmly initially they fight
amongst themselves and then they start fighting with their parents. Since
parents lack mutual understanding they overlook and ignore the children. This
results in rudeness of the children and they become disobedient. Children of
those parents who live in harmony and have understanding or at least they do
not bring their differences before their children remain obedient and at their
parents' service.
Not only
undue love and affection but undue harshness also spoils the kids. It is quite
perturbing issue, God may save parents from this.
Besides
change of attitude to correct the disobedient kids if the following could be
practiced the children by .the face of God Almighty would become obedient.
When the
child is sleeping at night just recite the following
بِسْمِ اللَّـهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ
بَل ھُوَ قُرَآنٌ مَجِیْدٌٓ فِی لَوحِ مَحْفُوْظٍ
in audible
but non-disturbing voice standing towards the head of the sleeping
child. This is required to be done at least for 11 days and at the most for 21
days.
KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DEEN AZEEMI
All the
stages of man's life are lived in small fragments of time equaling to a tiny
fraction of a second, Whole life of man, even if exceeds hundred years, keeps
on dividing into these fractions of time called moments. It is worth
considering that in order to live this life man keeps on joining these
fractions of tune in his mind and the very same fragments are put to use. In
our thinking which resembles a whirl-pool of fragments of time either we
advance from one segment of time to another or revert back from the one to
another one.
