Hamara Pehla Mauzo hai “ Bachay Aur Maa Baap”.

Aap jantay hain ke koi bacha is waqt taq peda nahi ho sakta jab taq ke is ke maa baap nah hon. Maa baap hotay hain to bachay hotay hain. Yahi haal maa baap ka hai. Un ke maa baap nah hotay to woh bhi nah hotay phir dada, dadi ka bhi yahi maamla hai. Un ke maa baap nah hotay to woh bhi nah hotay aur is terhan yeh silsila mere aur aap ke maa baap se shuru ho kar Amma Hawa aur Baawa Adam taq poanch jata hai. Is baat ko hum yun kahin ge ke agar Allah thala Adam aur Hawa ko peda nah karte to nah mein hota, nah mere maa baap hotay, nah aap hotay, nah aap ke walidain balkay koi bhi ensaan nah hota. Amma Hawa aur baawa Adam ko Allah thala ne is hi liye peda kya  tha ke saari duniya ke ensaan peda hon aur duniya mein aik aisa nizaam qaim ho jaye ke ensaan aapas mein bhai chaaray ke sath mohabbat aur akhuwat ke sath, bahami adab aur ehtram ke sath is duniya mein rahen aur is ko ronaqe bakhsheen. Maa baap ki yeh zimma daari hoti hai ke jab bachay duniya mein aa jatay hain to woh un ki dekh bhaal aur parwarish karte hain, un ki tarbiyat karte hain, ilm o hunar se inhen aaraasta karte hain. Maa baap ke sath sath jo buzurag dada, dadi, nana, nani hotay hain un ke oopar bhi zimma dariyan aed hoti hain woh bachon ki tarbiyat mein maa baap ki rahnumai karte hain, un ki madad karte hain.

Mere sath bhi kuch aisa hi maamla darpaish huaa. Meri walida sahibaa theen, mere waalid sahib they aur meri dadi amma theen. Ghar mein behan bhaiyon ke sath teen barray they. Aik aapa jee, aik abba jee aur aik meri dadi amma. Un tenu ki tavajja aur tarbiyat se aahista aahista mera shaoor bara huaa. Mujhe ilm haasil huaa, mujhe aqal aayi. Meri tarbiyat mein meri dadi amma ka bohat ziyada hissa hai. Dadi amma mujhe kahaniyan bohat sonaati theen. Un kahaaniyon mein woh aisi baatein sonaati theen jin se mujhe achhai aur buraiee ka shaoor haasil huaa. Meri dadi amma aik to mujhe kahaniyan bohat sonaati theen aur dosray inhen terhan terhan ke halwe pakanay ka bohat shoq  tha. Woh terhan terhan ke halwe pakka kar khilateen. Is waqt meri Umar koi chay saat saal thi. Chay saat saal ki Umar ki baatein sab hi bachon ko yaad rehti hain. Mujhe bhi yaad hain. Dadi amma jab kahani sunnaten to aik baat kahani se pehlay zaroor kaha kartin :

“ Hamara Tumhara Kkhuda Badshah, Kkhuda Ka Banaya Rasool(Sal alllaho aleih e wasalam) Badshah.”

Un ke aisa kehnay se pehlay baat to zehan mein yahi aati thi ke hamara asal badshah hamara asal maalik Allah hai. Hamara tumhara Kkhuda badshah. Kkhuda ka banaya Rasool(Sal Allah ho Aleih e Wasalam) badshah yani Allah ke baad agar koi barri hasti hai to woh Rasool Allah(Sal Allah ho Aleih e Wasalam) ki hasti hai. Har bachay ka pehla school is ka ghar hota hai. Agar walidain bachon ki taleem o tarbiyat mein dilchaspi nah len aur ziyada sanjeedgi se apni zimma daari poori nah karen to bachon ki sahih taleem o tarbiyat nahi hoti. Is hi wajah se bachon ki asal shanakht un ke maa baap hotay hain. Maa baap apne bachon ko jaisi bhi taleem o tarbiyat dete hain bacha isi ke mutabiq ban jata hai. Jis terhan school mein ustaad, college mein professor Sahiban hamein dunyawi Uloom se aaraasta karte hain. Is terhan hamaray buzurag Aulia Allah bhi hamein Roohani Uloom sikhate hain. Mere bhi Roohani  Ustaad hain. Roohani Uloom sikahnay walay ustaad ko Murshid kehte hain.

Mere Murshid Kareem Huzoor Qalandar Baba Aulia Rehmat Allah Aleh Ne Mujhe Aik Dafaa Yeh Waqea Sunaya  tha Ke :

“Hindostan mein aik daku  tha. Is ka naam Sultana daku  tha. Sultana daku ka naam itna mashhoor huaa ke is par filme banin, kitaaben aur kahaniyan likhi gayeen. Jab woh pakra gaya to is se is ki aakhri khwahish poochi gayi. Qanoon yeh hai ke jab kisi ko sazae mout suna di jati hai to is se is ki aakhri khwahish poochi jati hai aur hukoomat ki zimma daari hoti hai ke woh is ko poora kere. To jab Sultana daku se is ki aakhri khwahish poochi gayi to is ne kaha ke is waqt jab mujhe takhta e daar par khara kar diya jaye mein apni amma ko dekhna chahta hon. Jab usay takhta daar par khara kar diya gaya aur is ki maa samnay layi gayi to maa ronay lagi. Jab Sultana daku ne maa ko zor zor se rotay dekha to is ne kaha. Maa mein ne aap ko is hi liye bulaya  tha ke aap mera aakhri  anjaam dekh len aur mein aap se yeh bhi kehna chahta  tha ke mere is buray  anjaam ki zimma daar aap hain kyunkay jab mein chhota sa  tha to paros se mein aik anda chura kar laya  tha aur aap ne woh anda  pakka kar mujhe khula diya   tha. Agar aap is roz mujhe woh anda pakka kar nah khilateen aur anda wapas karwa detin to nah mein Sultana daku bantaa aur nah aaj aap ko apni aankhon ke samnay apne betay ko phansi lagtay dekhna parta.

Is waqea ko bayan karne ka maqsad yeh hai ke aap is baat ko samajh len ke jis terhan maa baap yeh chahtay hain ke aulaad un ka adab aur ehtram kere isi terhan maa baap ka yeh farz bhi bantaa hai ke woh aulaad ko koi aisi baat nah skhayin jo agay chal kar aulaad ke liye pareshani aur museebat ka sabab ban jaye. Koi bacha is waqt taq bara nahi ho sakta, jab taq walidain is ki dekh bhaal nah karen, is se mohabbat nah karen aur is ki zaroriat ki kifalat nah karen. Jis terhan insanon ke liye yeh zurori hai ke woh apni aulaad ki nighdasht karen, is ki tarbiyat karen, isi terhan aulaad ke liye bhi zurori hai ke jab inhen adab aur ehtram karna sikha diya jaye to  apne walidain aur buzurgon ka poora poora adab karen.

Mere aik dost habib bank ke Managin Director they. Mera un ke yahan aana jana  tha. Aik roz mein un ki walida sahibaa ke paas betha huaa  tha. Woh bohat khobsorat khatoon theen. Phool jaissa masoom chehra  tha. Un ki ankhen shafqat ki Qandil theen, hathon mein rasha  tha yani un ke haath kanpate rehtay they. Unhon ne thook daalnay ke liye ugaldaan uthaya to woh un ke haath se gir gaya. Is waqt mere dost samnay baithy they, kursi par jhulay le rahay they. Wahan un ki begum sahibaa bhi mojood theen, behnain bhi theen, nokar chaakar bhi they. Mein ne dekha ke mere dost taizi se aeye aur unhon ne apne hathon mein sara thook waghera uthaya, ugaldaan mein dala phir jaldi se baath room mein gay wahan se tissue paper, sponge aur pani le kar aeye, pehlay apni amma ka tissue paper se mun saaf kya, phir pani se mun dhulwaya toliye se khushk kya aur is ke baad qaleen saaf kya. Mein bara heran huaa ke yahan itnay nokar hain, un ki betiyan aur behnain bhi baithi hain aur dosray log bhi hain. Mere dost itnay barray Afsar they. Habib bank ki kayi so branchon ki nigrani aur dekh bhaal karna un ki zimma daari thi. Phir bhi yeh sara kaam unhon ne khud apne hathon se kya. Mein ne un ki behan se poocha :

“Kya amma ke saaray kaam aap ke bhai karte hain ?”

Un ki behan ne bataya ke :

“ Amma ke saaray kaam woh khud karte hain.”

Mein ne jab un ke baray mein muloomat haasil kee to pata chala ke taleemi lehaaz se woh sirf bi kaam they. Bank mein mulazim hue, aik bank se dosray bank gay aur taraqqi karte karte Allah ne inhen itni izzat bakhshi ke habib bank ke Managing Director ban gay.

Mere tajarbay mein aisay be shumaar waqeat hain jis kisi ne bhi  apne maa baap ki khidmat ki hai Allah thala ne inhen zaroor izzat bakhsh hai. Aaj taq aisa dekhnay mein nahi aaya ke bachon ne  apne maa baap ki khidmat ki ho,  apne walidain ki izzat ki ho aur un ka ehtram kya ho aur woh deenee aur dunyawi aitbaar se peechay reh gay hon. Allah thala inhen zaroor hi aisay wasail faraham kar deta hai ke woh duniya mein izzat daar bhi hue aur barray bhi banay. Allah thala inhen har aitbaar se nawazta hai. Maali aitbaar se bhi, Ilmi tor par bhi aur izzat o Waqar ke hawalay se bhi. Allah thala hamein hukum deta hai ke hum  apne walidain ka ehtram karen. Allah Thala Quran Hakeem Mein Farmatay Hain :

“ Apne Walidain Ka Ehtram Karo. Jab Tum Kisi Qabil Nahi They To Tumahray Saaray Kaam Tumhari Maa Karti Thi. Maa Bachay Ko Doodh Pila Kar Is Qabil Bana Deti Hai Ke Woh Baith Sakay, Uth Sakay, Bhaag Daur Sakay, Jab Tum Chhootey Se They, Khud Se Karvat Bhi Le Nahi Sakte They Aur Pishaab Se Geelay Ho Jatay They To Tumhari Maa Tumhe Sokhey Par Sulati Thi Aur Khud Geelay Bistar Par So Jati Thi.”

Aik baar meri walida sahibaa jin ko hum behan bhai aapa jee kehte they, mujhe aik waqea sunaya. Woh waqea mein aap ko sunataa hon :

“ Hazrat Moosa Aleh Salam koh e toor par tashreef le jaya karte they wahan par woh Allah se baatein kya karte they, jab un ki walida ka intqaal ho gaya aur Hazrat Moosa Aleh Salam koh e toor par gay to Hazrat Moosa Aleh Salam se Allah ne kaha :

“ Ae Moosa! Ab sambhal ke aana.”

Hazrat Moosa Aleh Salam ghabra gay ke Allah thala ne aisa kyun kaha ke Sunbal ke aana. Is par Allah Miyan ne Farmaya :

“ Jab tum koh e toor par hum se baatein karne ke liye atay they to tumhari maa sajday mein gir jati thi aur hum se dua karti thi ke ae Allah ! Mera beta bara kamzor hai agar is se koi ghalti ho jaye ya koi bhool chook ho jaye to usay maaf kar dena aur hum tumhari maa ki duaon ki wajah se tumhari kamzoree aur bhool chook ko nazar andaaz kar diya karte they, lekin ab woh duniya se rukhsat ho gayi hain, ab tum ko khud sambhal kar aana hai.”

Allah thala yeh bhi farmatay hain ke jab tumahray maa baap bhooray ho jayen, zaeef ho jayen to tum un ke samnay onche aawaz se baat nah karo, inhen uff taq bhi nah kaho kyunkay unhon ne tumhe khilaya hai, acha libaas pehnaya hai. Tumhari taleem o tarbiyat ki hai. Tumhe duniya mein rehne ke qabil bananay ki koshish karte rahay, bachay  apne abba ke kandhon par baith kar jawan hotay hain. Hamaray mazhab islam mein hukum hai ke agar aap namaz parh rahay hon aur aap ki boorhi walida kisi zaroorat se aap ko aawaz day to aap namaz toar kar un ke paas jayen, un ka kaam karen aur wapas aa kar namaz parhein. Namaz aik aisa amal hai jis mein bande ka Allah thala se barah e raast talluq qaim ho jata hai. Lekin is ke bawajood Allah thala hukum day rahay hain ke boorhi maa ki baat pehlay suno aur is ki khidmat karo. Apni maa ka hukum maan-ne walay bachon ko Allah thala pyar karte hain aur farishtay aur duniya walay un ki izzat karte hain.

Aap ne Sheikh Abdul Qadar Jelani ka naam zaroor suna ho ga. Aap bohat barray Roohani  buzurag hain. Log inhen Ghaus pak ke naam se jantay hain. Inhen gayarhavi walay pirsahb bhi kaha jata hai. Woh Huzoor Aleh Salat O Vaslam ke darbaar mein wazeer e huzoori hain. Agar kisi ne Huzoor Aleh Salat O Vaslam se milna hota hai to Hazrat Sheikh Abdul Qadar Jelani hi ke zariye darkhwast paish hoti hai. Un ke bachpan ke do waqeat aisay hain jo hum sab ke liye Mashal e raah hain.

Jab aap chhootey they larakpan ka zamana  tha. Aik baar aap ki walida mohtarma ne raat ko inhen aawaz di aur pani manga. Aap utthay, ja kar dekha to gharra khaali  tha. Is zamane mein ghar ghar null aur pipe to hotay nahi they. Pani Kunvey se nikaal kar istemaal kya jata  tha. Kunvey bhi har ghar mein nahi they. Sheikh Abdul Qadar Jelani ne ghara u thaya aur pani lainay kunvey par chalay gay. Wahan se pani le kar aeye. Ktore mein pani bhar kar walida sahibaa ke paas puhanche to dekha ke walida sahibaa so gayi hain. Un ke dil mein apni walida ka itna adab aur ehtram tha ke unhon ne un ki neend kharab karna munasib nahi samjha. Woh pani ka katora liye wahein walida sahibaa ke sarahnay kharray rahay aur intzaar karte rahay. Yahan taq ke subah ho gayi. Jab un ki walida sahibaa ki aankhh khuli aur unhon ne  apne betay ko  apne sarahnay khara dekha to bohat heran huien. Jab yaad aaya ke raat sonay se pehlay unhon ne pani manga  tha aur beta saari raat pani ka katora liye sarahnay khara raha to inhen  apne betay par bohat pyar aaya. Inhen seenay se laga kar khoob pyar kya aur duayen den ke ae Allah to is naik aur Saadat mand betay ko bohat bara aadmi bana day. Maa ke dil se niklee hui dua ne barray paiir sahib ko un logon mein shaamil kar diya jin ke naam sadiiyon baad bhi izzat aur ehtram se liye jatay hain. Yun to har maa hi  apne bachon ke liye dua karti hai. Har maa ki yeh khwahish hoti hai ke is ki aulaad bara aadmi banay, lekin jab aulaad  apne maa baap ka adab karti hai, un se ehtram se paish aati hai to is dua mein geherai peda ho jati hai aur jo dua dil se nikalti hai Allah thala is ko zaroor qubool farma letay hain.